Are You Dickmatized?

By Master Psychic Rachel

Before I begin, let me make something clear. I am the type of psychic you can talk with about anything. Nothing is off-limits. If you're my client or on my mailing list, be ready for open and free dialog. If you can't handle us talking freely about grown-people stuff, you might want to jump off my mailing list now. When I did that article Bitch Mode Activated, I had a subscriber try to chew me out. She was very offended by that word, and maybe she didn't read the full article to understand my point, but okay.

Today’s article is more grown folks' talk for the grown and sexy. So, if you are going to get offended, please do not read any further. Allow me to take you off my mailing list, and stay blessed. My clients know that I am the type of person who says what she feels—respectfully, of course—and that is why people either love me as their psychic or hate me. It's up to you. Now, let’s begin.

What Does It Mean to Be Dickmatized?

Are you Dickmatized? First off, what does it mean? Dickmatized is when you think you're in love, but actually, you're not in love with the person as much as you're in love with the dick. Period. When you're Dickmatized, you're hypnotized by the dick, and you might not even know it. Dickmatism can go many years without being noticed. When you're Dickmatized, you'll often be in denial. You'll be like, "But, I love hem." Yes, hem. You'll swear it's love, but how do you know it's not love and you're under his trance of good dick?

The Warning Signs

The biggest indicator that you're Dickmatized is that he treats you like shit, but you're still with him. Or, you know he's no good, but you're still there. You keep holding on, even though you know you can do better, letting your feelings get in the way of your gut and common logic. If you often disregard the truth and your feelings, it's highly likely you're Dickmatized—because what else has got you staying?

You stay with him because you like how he makes you feel, right?

Think about it: Are you with him because in the bedroom he knows how to keep you quiet or satisfied, if only for a few minutes? I know you know who you are out there. No-good men are some of the best in the bedroom because they know that's what they need to do to survive. They know that in order for a woman to put up with their shit, they must lay down the law in the bedroom. They're masters of this, and we have to learn how to wake up from the hypnotism. And it can be hard to snap out of it when the magic stick is that good.

Let Me Keep It Real

Have I ever been Dickmatized? Ummm, yes. Believe it or not, your favorite psychic has been Dickmatized, yes. And just like you, I was in denial because it was just that good. And I'm sure many of you now are still in denial, so what are the other telltale signs you're Dickmatized, and how can you come out of the trance?

The 10 Signs You're Dickmatized

1. Dealing with a No-Good Partner: He ain't no good, but you still keep on dealing with him. He ain't no good, but in the bedroom, he is great. If this is the case, you are Dickmatized.
   

2. Disrespectful Treatment: He treats you like shit, has no respect for you, doesn't take you nowhere, doesn't do nothing with you, but in the bedroom, he acts like you are his Queen. If this is the case, you are Dickmatized.
   

3. Ignoring Warnings: Your gut, your friends, and your momma tell you to leave him alone, but you still deal with him because in the bedroom, he can make you forget everything he did wrong to you—like temporary amnesia. Then you are Dickmatized.
   

4. Post-Breakup Hookups: Y'all broke up, but yet you still let him come over to get some every now and again. Then you are Dickmatized. Point blank, no doubt about it.
   

5. Inability to Connect with Others: You can't imagine another man even touching you. When you have tried to give another man a chance, you just can't connect with him like that, and it makes you think more and more of your ex. If this is the case, then you are Dickmatized.
   

6. Making Excuses: You're always making excuses for his bad behavior, telling your friends "But you don't understand him like I do" or "He's different when we're alone." Girl, that's the Dickmatization talking.
   

7. Financial Foolishness: You're paying his bills, buying him things, and letting him stay at your place rent-free—all because you can't bear the thought of him leaving you, especially your bedroom. That's not love, that's being Dickmatized.
   

8. Emotional Roller Coaster: One minute you hate him, the next minute you're calling him. You delete his number but you’ve memorized it. You block him but you unblock him. This ain't normal behavior - you're Dickmatized.
   

9. Forgetting Your Worth: You used to be a strong, independent person, but now you're accepting the bare minimum just to keep him around. When the dick has you forgetting your standards, you're Dickmatized.
   

10. Time Wasting: You've wasted months or even years waiting for him to change or treat you better, knowing deep down he never will. But that dick keeps you hanging on. Classic case of being Dickmatized.

Breaking Free: The Solution

How do you break the curse of Dickmatism? It's not easy, and there's no simple solution. The first step is acknowledging you're addicted and have a big problem on your hands. If you're in denial of Dickmatism, you may never be cured. So, admit what it is, and come clean about the truth of the matter. Once you know what it is, you can watch for patterns.

5 Steps to Undickmatize Yourself

1. Admit you have an addiction to his D. Talk with someone who can help—a close friend, family member, psychologist, or spiritual counselor. See what they suggest, and take heed of their advice.
   

2. Realize you're more than his dick. You're a woman who deserves respect and true love, not one to be fooled by the snake.
   

3. Go celibate for a little while. Learn that all dick ain't good dick. With good dick can come a lot of problems, and it's just not worth destroying your peace of mind.
   

4. Set boundaries and stick to them. Block his number, unfollow him on social media, and remove any reminders. The more distance you create, the less power he'll have over you.
   

5. Focus on self-love and rediscover your passions. There used to be other things that meant something to you—and there can be again when you are free of his influence.

Final Words

Have you ever felt Dickmatized? Are you trying to come out from under that spell? Drop your comments below, and don't feel ashamed. We've all been there—well, most of us, at least.

Thanks for letting me have this real talk with you. I have so many clients who have become victims of Dickmatism, and if you’re one of them, there’s always hope. With proper guidance from the right adviser and some willpower, you can break that curse. We can break it together.

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